Let’s be real: when it comes to hair care, not all oils are created equal. And no, I’m not talking about that heavy blue jar of hair grease your grandma swore by (sorry, Auntie, but clogged follicles are not cute). I’m talking about luxurious, natural oils that bring your scalp and strands back to life without suffocating them.
If you’ve been side-eyeing hair oils because you’ve seen them misused, don’t worry, I’m here to give you the boujie breakdown on how to use oils the right way.
Why Oils Belong in Your Hair Routine
Oils are like that one friend who always shows up overdressed but somehow makes the entire vibe better. They:
- Boost scalp circulation when massaged in properly (hello, hair growth ✨).
- Nourish your strands with fatty acids and vitamins.
- Add shine without the fake, greasy buildup.
- Protect against dryness by sealing in your moisture.
But let’s be clear: oils are treatments and enhancers, not a leave-in cream or lotion replacement.
Oils vs. Grease: The Tea
Here’s the thing: traditional “hair grease” is often packed with petrolatum, mineral oil, and paraffin. All of which just sit on your scalp, blocking follicles like bad energy. Your hair can’t thrive if it can’t breathe.
Natural oils, on the other hand, actually work with your hair and scalp. Think jojoba, argan, almond, castor, and grapeseed. They absorb, they nourish, and when rinsed out properly, they leave your hair soft, not suffocated.
How to Do a Proper Oil Treatment (The Boujie Way)
Skip the mess. Here’s how to do it like a pro:
- Choose your oil wisely – Go for lightweight, nutrient-rich oils (argan if you want shine, castor if you want thickness, jojoba if you want scalp balance).
- Warm it up – Just a little. Lukewarm oil feels like a spa moment for your scalp.
- Massage it in – Use your fingertips (not nails!) in circular motions. Think of it as a self-care ritual, not just a treatment.
- Let it sit – 20–30 minutes under a shower cap or heat cap. Cue your Netflix show while your hair gets boujie.
- Rinse it out – Shampoo and condition as usual. Don’t leave oil sitting in your hair like it’s edge control.
Moisturizing & Sealing: The Smart Way to Oil
Even though I don’t endorse slathering on heavy grease, I do believe in the classic moisturize and seal method. Here’s the upgrade:
- Apply a water-based leave-in or moisturizer first (this is your hydration).
- Follow with a light natural oil on top (this seals in the goodness).
- Avoid going overboard. You want soft, touchable strands, not a slick ponytail from 2005.
Final Thoughts: Expensive Hair Energy Only
Hair oils, when used properly, are not just a treatment, they’re a luxury experience. Think of them as your scalp’s glass of champagne: indulgent, bubbly, and a little extra…but totally worth it.
So ditch the heavy greases, choose natural oils, and treat your hair like the crown it is. Because boujie girls don’t just wear expensive...we grow it, shine it, and flaunt it.
💎 Pro Tip: Consistency is queen. An oil treatment once a week can transform your hair over time if done correctly.
PS - Never use oils before a silk press… EVER!
